by David A. Carbonell, Ph.D.
This month I want to address two misconceptions people have about cognitive behavioral treatment for panic disorder andphobias.
The first misconception concerns the order in which thetreatment progresses. It's this:
"The doctor will help me become unafraid. Then I can go dothe things I've been avoiding, like highway driving orshopping in malls."
Cognitive behavioral treatment is a very effective method for helping people overcome such phobias. In most cases,I can use it to help people get back on the highway, or intothe mall, or on a plane, or wherever they want to go. Butwe don't do it in the order they expect. They start with
the idea that, first they'll become unafraid, then they'lldrive on the highway.
We do the reverse of that.
They need to first go driving, and be afraid. Later, afterenough practice, they will get to the point of being unafraid while driving.
That's terribly important. Progress isn't made by staying away from the fear. Progress is made by practicing *with*the fear.
The fear isn't the main problem, because I know that ifpeople learn to approach it in an accepting way, the fear will gradually disappear.
The main problem is that they resist and avoid the fear. I help them recover by helping them change that. We do thisin steps, of course, not going faster or further than thecleint is willing to do. But practice with fear is the wayto achieve progress.
The second misconception comes in two different forms, andhas to do with the way cognitive behavioral treatment helpspeople recover.
The first form is this:
"Cognitive behavioral therapy doesn't really fix the problem.It's just a band-aid. I don't want to be following theAWARE steps, or filling out journals, or breathing a special way all the rest of my life."
That's understandable. You don't have to. These coping tools are a means to an end. They help you get started withthe exposure so that you can become desensitized to the fear. Over time, you will let them go as part of your progress.
The second form is this:
"Cognitive behavioral therapy will give me the tools to besafe. I can use diaphragmatic breathing and other tools tokeep me safe."
These tools will help you lose your fear, but they won't keep you safe. They don't keep you safe because, when youhave a panic attack, you're not in danger. It's very scary,but it's not dangerous. If you get fooled into believing thatthe coping techniques keep you safe, you will become dependent on them, and never really lose your fear.
If you're presently in treatment for panic disorder, or may do so in the future, it helps to be aware of these potentialmisconceptions. Review them for yourself and, if you findit helpful, discuss them with your therapist.
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Dr. Carbonell, a licensed psychologist, is the founder and director of the Anxiety Treatment Center. Dr. Carbonell isavailable for consultation in both the Chicago and New York offices. He publishes The Anxiety Coach®, which you can subscribe to at:
http://anxietycoach.c.topica.com/maacBa8aa9yxFbc5hs6b/